Packing your entire life into a suitcase and saying goodbye to everything that is familiar and comfortable to become an expat in a foreign country is certainly not easy. But what is it really like?
In this new monthly series, expats reveal all! If you’re contemplating the big move abroad, here’s an insight into what life as an expat is really like. Every month, I’ll be putting the call out to expats past and present from all over the world to respond to a simple question about the realities of expat life. This month in the debut post, expats are sharing with us what the best thing about being an expat is in their opinion. All of the expats featured this month also have blogs, which means that you can follow along on their adventures abroad with them!
This month: The best thing about being an expat
Monika of My Thousand Worlds
Original country: Slovakia
Moved to: Sweden
Reason for moving abroad: I’ve felt the urge to travel and live abroad since I remember (as recent study shows, now I can blame the genetics!). However, it didn’t really happen until I went on workaway to Sweden last summer and somehow have not left the country since then thanks to the job I got. Being a seasonal expat enables me to get to know new country, new people and new culture in a sustainable way.
Best thing about being an expat: I believe being an expat is one of the best ways to explore new places from the perspective of a local. Every day I learn something new as I’m getting familiar with the environment – sometimes it makes me happy, sometimes desperate and sometimes surprised but I do not get tired of it! 🙂 Living abroad also opens brand new opportunities you have not considered before. At home, you often feel under pressure of social conventions but once you are out there on your own, you realize you can do whatever you want. Plus, in Sweden they make a lot of cakes! 🙂
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Nicola Easterby of Polkadot Passport
Original country: Australia
Moved to: New Zealand
Reason for moving abroad: As much as I would love to say I moved abroad in order to go on some fabulous adventure, I actually moved abroad to New Zealand purely as a transitional phase so I could save up to travel more! My whole family moved across so it made sense for me to go with them at the time. I figured it would be an opportunity to get out of my comfort zone, explore a new country, and save funds whilst I was at it.
Best thing about being an expat: For me, the best part about being an expat was completely breaking out of my comfort zone. Having lived ten years of my life in Brisbane, Australia, I was starting to get very comfortable and settled living there. Yet I never wanted to feel stuck in one city for the rest of my life! Moving to New Zealand was one of most challenging years of my life, but it really taught me to enjoy my own company, how to be active in making new friends, and the importance of seeking opportunities to establish myself. Plus, I had a pretty beautiful country at my doorstep to explore!
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Anna G of The Fearless Flashpacker
Original country: USA
Moved to: Bahrain
Reason for moving abroad: I was temporarily assigned to my employer’s office there.
Best thing about being an expat: Unlike transient visitors, you have a chance to absorb the culture, history, cuisine, and language of your second country. But above all, you make a family of friends: locals and fellow-expats alike. The further you are from home, the less pronounced differences become.
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Liz Kelly of Sweden Dreaming
Original country: USA
Moved to: United Kingdom (Glasgow and London)
Reason for moving abroad: I didn’t find out I had UK dual citizenship until I was 22. Once I did, I knew studying in the UK would help me get through the recession. Even with a BA I couldn’t get a job. In 2009, I moved to Scotland to study a master’s degree at Glasgow University. I moved to London after graduation, and have lived in the capital since.
Best thing about being an expat: My experience has been somewhat unique, because I live in a foreign country but it’s where my family is from and still lives. Being able to meet and spend time with my extended family has been priceless. Being based in London means I can travel to the continent frequently and cheaply. Overall, having my worldview widened has been great. I was always open and curious about the world, but now I feel like I’m really able to experience it.
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Menorca Chaturvedi of Europe Diaries
Original country: India
Moved to: Germany and Switzerland
Reason for moving abroad: I moved to Germany for my Master studies and then moved to Switzerland for my thesis. I decided to stay back after that to work and travel.
Best thing about being an expat: Experiencing a different culture, meeting people from different countries, backgrounds, cultures and knowing them closely. Also, you get a lot of opportunities to talk to people about your country, culture and break certain stereotypes that may have formed in their minds.
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Melanie Holt of Don’t Forget Snacks
Original country: Australia
Moved to: Belgium
Reason for moving abroad: My reason for moving abroad is a classic one: the ol’ study abroad love story. While I was studying abroad in the USA, I met a wonderful fellow exchange student from Belgium. He soon became my boyfriend, and before even finishing the semester we started making plans for when I would move over to Belgium. After a year and a half of long distance, the plans came to fruition: I moved to the land of fries, waffles and rain in July 2014. It was a great decision!
Best thing about being an expat: For me, the best thing about being an expat is the impermanence of it. Being unsure about how long we’ll live here spurs me to try and experience as much of Belgium (and Europe!) as possible. It was so easy to postpone doing something new at home; I felt like I had the rest of my life to get around to it. Here, the idea that I could move away from Belgium and end up regretting not doing things motivates me to make the most of every day.
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Trish from Travels and Tipples
Original country: USA
Moved to: Germany
Reason for moving abroad:I had traveled to Europe several times and loved it each and every time. I knew there were opportunities to work in Germany in my profession, so I started applying for positions in the spring of 2010 and moved to Germany in January 2011. So, I moved abroad because I got a job in Germany but the reason I wanted to work in Germany was for the travel opportunities.
Best thing about being an expat: If I have to choose just one thing, it’s the travel opportunities. Living in Germany, I can easily drive or take the train to the Netherlands, Belgium, Luxembourg, France, Switzerland, Austria, Liechtenstein and the Czech Republic for weekend trips or even day trips. Not to mention Germany itself has countless amazing things to see and do. I still have not run out of things to do within a 2-hour drive of my town. I also live very close to Frankfurt airport so air travel is easy as well. My goal is to visit every country in Europe!
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Rachel from The Department of Wandering
Original country: Australia
Moved to: Germany
Reason for moving abroad: Originally I moved from Australia to Germany because my boyfriend, Ben, had accepted a contract at Volkswagen so I left my job in Australia and moved abroad too. I wasn’t going to pass up the opportunity to move to Berlin! It took me a little while to find a job over there, mainly because of the language barrier, but I eventually found a job as a secondary English teacher in an International School in the centre of the city. We’ve now been expats for almost two years!
Best thing about being an expat: Without a doubt, the best thing about being an expat in Europe is the endless opportunity to travel. Living in such a central location in Europe means that it is all too easy to travel internationally every other weekend. A few weeks ago, we jetted off to Copenhagen for only € 25! I love having so many different cultures right at my doorstep too. In Australia, it’s a little more difficult to travel to another country for a weekend escape!
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Want to know more about my expat experience? Check out these posts on expat life:
10 Reasons Why You Should Become an Expat
Why I’ve Lived in an Airbnb Flat for a Year (With No Plans to Move)
The German Spa Experience: WARNING: Nudity Expected
If you’re an expat or have been in the past and are interested in sharing your experiences in next month’s ‘Expats share’ post, get in touch!
What’s your opinion on this month’s question? Do any of these expat responses resonate with you? Join in the discussion and share your perspective in the comments below!
Thank you for including me, Rachel! 🙂 It´s great to hear about other expats´ experiences and it´ll hopefully inspire others to make the big move! 🙂
Thank YOU for sharing your expat experience Monika! There are clearly lots of great things about being an expat, as shared in this post, so I definitely think it is inspiring reading for others considering moving abroad! 🙂
I love that you got responses from so many expats! It’s such an amazing experience. We’re only 6 months into the experience and can’t imagine living any other way. We moved from Virginia, USA to Amsterdam, Netherlands and it’s been wonderful. I think one of the best things has been to discover ourselves and what we really wanted out of life. When you just go day-to-day from college to a job not far from your school you are just doing the motions. When you actively move it makes you refocus priorities and helps you figure out what is really important. But everyone has their own story, so this was very enjoyable to read!
Thanks Jessica! Maybe you would like to be one of our featured expats for next month’s post? It’s so great that you are having such a positive experience in Amsterdam and it really sounds as though you’ve gained some clarity about the direction you want your lives to head in. Berlin did the same thing to me and now I’m heading in a completely different direction and it’s just so damn exciting! Keep on making the most of every minute you’re away! 🙂
I do agree with all this - the main thing is to try and not chicken out! My husband and I moved from Poland to the UK 8 years ago and we do not look back since! It is a massively changing experience and I personally think that everyone should try it. Our story is here, if anyone is interested - http://www.wanderingveronique.com/?p=2569.
Thanks for sharing a little snapshot of your expat experience, Monika! I’m so happy that it’s been a positive experience for you and your husband. Do you have any plans to return to Poland in the future? Keep having fun! 🙂
I love this! I really like that you guys have found such a wide variety of expats! I’m a Kiwi who to moved to Germany just over a month ago to be an au pair. I’m loving life in Germany and have already decided the expat life is for me 🙂
Thanks Katie! Where in Germany are you living? So happy to hear that you’re loving the expat experience. Would you like to be featured in the next ‘Expats Share’ feature?
I love this collection of stories from other expats. Being an expat in another country is a great way to experience like and culture in another country. My husband and I lived in Costa Rica for a short time. It was an amazing experience.We are currently in the process of getting a Visa for Spain!
Thanks Valerie. Wow — Costa Rica would have been a beautiful place to live. How long where you there? Spain sounds very exciting! Good luck with the visa!
I’m so happy I found this post. It’ great to read all the different expat stories. Amazing! Will be following your blog from now on! I’m a German living in California for 8 years now and it has been a great experience. We’re thinking about moving back though, but I already know that I’ll be missing the expat life a lot. I’m blogging here: http://coellefornia.me
Wow - 8 years is such a long time, Kathrin! It’s a hard decision to stay or move home — you truly feel like you have two homes. I hope you’re happy wherever you end up x